Recently I was interviewed by writer Nicole Harrington - she writes freelance for Adult Matchmaker.
After seeing me on Luke Warm Sex, she tracked me down as she thought I'd have a lot to offer her readers. Turns out she was right.
A few choice quotes:
“For most guys, we’ve grown up training our sexuality through masturbating as quickly as possible while we’re teenagers so no one catches us,” Jared says, “And in terms of actual sexual performance, that’s a really poor way to train our relationship with our sexual energy – you want to be able to last longer. It’s something a lot of guys struggle with.”
And if you’re a man who constantly struggles with unfulfilled sexual needs, Jared’s advice is to look within. “One of men’s common frustrations is partners who don’t want to have sex as often as they do. This leads to men projecting their needs in an outward direction and struggling with ejaculating early.
“It’s important to get them to really bring their needs into themselves. Often what they’re doing is saying: ‘I need this from her to feel a connection’, or ‘I need sex because I want to feel something’.
“The key is to get a man to cultivate that feeling within himself, rather than handing all that power over to his partner; to teach men to fulfil their own spiritual needs and feel much more powerful.”